“In India the mother is the center of the family and our highest ideal. She is to us the representative of God, as God is the mother of the universe. It was a female sage who first found the unity of God, and laid down this doctrine in one of the first hy mns of the Vedas. Our God is both personal and absolute, the absolute is male, the personal, female. And thus it comes that we now say: ’The first manifestation of God is the hand that rocks the cradle’.” (CW V.4 p.170)

– Swami Vivekananda

**** Swami Vivekananda, of course, refers to Bowlby’s good mother. A bad mother leaves the footprints of god as well, but in that role she is an evil, maglomanic, annhilating god…..